Bachelor/Bachelorette parties

I have a question is there anything wrong with a women having her Bachelorette party out of town. I don't see nothing wrong with having my bachelorette party in New York or Vegas if my man is having his in Baltimore or Washington DC. I was talking to a couple of friends of mines about this topic. I find it funny that a man won't let his women have her party out of town. I already know the answer if I ask Dre we already talked about before and he totaly disagrees with me as usual. But I have no problem with having my party out of town and coming back the next day. I asked my girl friends and they said there man couldn't have a party out of town but they would have one. Now to me that's not fair if he wanted his party out of town I would have no problem with it. This is just a topic I thought I would bring up for discussion. TTYL