Why women get caught between two men

Women are the real players in this whole game called relationships. Men only play women because certain women aren't paying attention to their mates and heir surroundings. Every women could have two men and neither man know about each other or the side man knows the truth. But ladies only tell your side man the whole story if you think he can handle the truth, you don't want his ass going postal and blowing your spot up. Women get caught up when they start making the side man the main man. You can't just make the side man the main man in a day or two it takes a wile you have to make sure all your feelings are gone for the main man first. If no you will be caught between two men. Ladies we have all been their caught between two men and not wanting to hurt no ones feelings. But when you play the game of having a man and a side man someones feelings are bound to get hurt and it could be your feelings. Both men could say the hell with it and you are left looking dumb, but that's the price you pay when you play the game.

I have noticed a lot of women say they have male friends instead of saying I have a man that I just sleep with. I am guilty of saying that also but that friendship could turn into something that neither one of you could imagine. The next thing you know both of you are saying I love you and looking at each other like you are crazy. Just wondering how in the hell did we get here. Ladies the main problem we all have is sleeping with our mail friends. Once you sleep with them the friendship can never be the same.You will be jealous if he gets a women and he will be jealous if you get a man. But neither one of you can say lets be together because you have told yourselves it would never work.

Then we have the main man that's either in your life or coming back into your life and you don't know what to do. My advice would be listen to your heart and you mind. Don't listen to friends who's relationships are jacked up, if they can't keep their own shit together they can't help yours. You have to think about who loves you more, who's going to be their for you and yours, and who has your heart and best interest at heart. That will clearly tell you which man you should be with and which one should remain a friend.

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