Men got it made

Men have it made when it comes to relationships. There are several women out there screaming "There are no good men out there", well if you don't challenge them to be good men then you will never find one. Women don't have any standards anymore, they talk about the 90 day rule but they give it up in 10 days or the same day. You can't expect to get respect from any man treating yourself like a drive thru window. We as women have to upgrade our standards then the men will see we are not settling for the crap. I am not saying go out here and take a man for all he's worth...NO...You want a man that treats you like you are his equal show him you are independent that you can survive without him and he will look at you in a whole different light. Another thing "A MAN WILL AND CAN ONLY DO WHAT  YOU LET HIM DO, AND HE WILL ONLY RESPECT YOU AS MUCH AS YOU RESPECT YOURSELF".If you have no respect for yourself then he will treat you like the trick you are. Relationships are 25% honesty, 25% patience, 25% friendship, and 25% love....Some say why you put friendship in the percentage. I have learned you have to be friends with your man or women, no one wants to be with someone they don't like. In reality your friendship has to be stronger then all the other parts. Two people share a special bond no matter what happened in their relationships if they can fall back on friendship they can make it work.

But back to the main point of this blog.....Ladies stop saying there are no good men out here. Sit down and think of what your standards are and what you want your man to have or whatever. Go from that draw from what you want and stay true to yourself. Remember men are going to mirror who you are. What I mean by that, if you put up with your man cheating on you then he will do it again, especially if you don't have any consequences for him. If you want to get married ladies don't stay with a man for half your life wondering why he hasn't asked you to marry him. When you haven't forced this mans hand. That's why I said men have it easy, some women will put up with the dumbest crap to say they are in a relationship and post it on their Facebook page. But why do that when you are not happy with what you have at home. The man you have might be the man for you and he might be a good man, if you make him be. Men are like children they are going to try to get away with whatever they can. You tell a child don't touch the stove because its hot. You tell your man the same shit "Don't mess around on me or you will be out on your ass" and mean it. He will think twice if he loves you. If he don't love you then hey brush yourself off and try another. Well time for me to see whats cracking up in here...and maybe take my own advice and see where my prince charming is....LOL Good night peoples TTYL  Kiss Kiss